My Buddies Problem (R-Rated)(Not for work or kids)

Its me hahaha. I just suck at life. That is all.

if i knew it was you i would have really messed with ya ..lol

dont rush it man

And always remember...there is a pyshcotic hormonal raging woman attached to that vagina, so try and find one that is less psycho and hormonally. And if you pic the wrong one the vagina turns into a vacuum and sucks away all your dreams and activities you used to enjoy. But your young....so find a whole bunch of hoodrats and run through em real quick. Haha jk. About he hoodrats....not about the wet/dry vacuum aka the cooter lol.

Serious though take your time and one will find you. And remember the motion of the ocean

Im not sure if I should post this but I guess now that I have a free moment I thought I would add a bit more info to this. Thanks everyone for the advice so far and Im sorry this is so long and rambled and might not make sense, but I guess Im just feeling lost and dont know what to do and I just need to get it out. So Im a very quiet person, I dont usually say much unless I am with friends and theres only a few people around. I know thats my biggest problem that I cant just go out and talk to people. I know alot of it comes from not being very confident in myself and thats something I have been trying to work on, but I don't believe Im a very attractive guy and I don't have alot of faith in myself that I can do anything that anyone will care about. I guess I have convinced myself over the years that no one would be interested in me either. Ive only had one gf, and before her I really wasnt even interested in having one, mostly because I saw all the other bullshit that other people went through. Being with her was great because we have very similar personalities and she had never really had a bf either, so everything was new to us. She was the first person I was able to talk to about anything and everything and was comfortable with and that was something that I loved. We pretty much always agreed about everything and we never had had a fight in the 2 years we were together. Then about a month and half ago, she told me she wanted to take a break for a few weeks and then broke up with me. I have no idea what happened, all she said it was nothing you did, its me that has changed. Kinda seems like a bullshit excuse in my opinion and Im not hearing the truth but whatever. I tried so hard to do everything right and just be nice and considerate and give her everything she wanted and to be there for her and it seems like it was all for nothing. Anyways I was a wreck for the 2 weeks of our break and then the breakup, but thanks to my friends Im starting to get over it. Well somewhat, typing this is hard, I just keep thinking about all the things I miss about her and being with her and its killing me to think about it. Im very lucky to have some great friends that have been helping me get through this. Ive been trying to change and get out of the same routine and trying to get more comfortable with people by going out with my friends and it has been more fun than I thought it could be. I didnt have my first drink until about a month ago I started hanging out with them haha. According to all my friends I had a chance to hook up with a girl I met the first night I went out with them, I took her to dinner about a week later and we hung out for a bit and then I got the "your a really nice guy, but I just want to be friends". Whatever I guess, cant expect miracles to happen with the 2nd girl Ive ever gone on a date with. At least Im getting out and putting myself out there in new situations right? But getting that makes me think Im too nice. I mean I have friends that are in relationships and they are assholes to there gf's, but the girls just stay with them and are made to feel bad about themselves all the time. Makes me angry thinking about it, Idk why you would treat someone like that but thats a whole nother topic. Anyways I went to a halloween party saturday night, I know I definitely had an opportunity to hook up with this one really good looking girl, but I didnt take advantage, and Im dissapointed with myself for that. I just dont know how to go about starting up a conversation with anyone.I think too much about things and get myself talked out of things without trying. I have a big fear of rejection, and to avoid that I just have always not done things that I think might lead to rejection. I know its part of life, Im slowly getting over that. I guess I cant expect myself to be different overnight, it will take time to change. Im lost and am looking for something but I dont know what, while trying to change myself and my behavior, while trying to not change just to make people happy. Idk i guess there's not really a point to this long ramble but maybe if you made it through this maybe you guys might have some advice.

sounds like your thinking about it to much man your gonna find a chick that feels the exact same way about things you do and you guys will click and be bumping uglies before you know it

Damn, you sound like me. Just don't know what to say to people (I have the problem male or female), lack of self confidence and worth (though I must say I'm not bad to look at. I mean, if I were gay I'd try to fuck me. ) Though I think part of my problem was I was in a shitty relationship for 3 years then right in another relationship for 4. I don't know what it's like to talk to a random chick now. All my friends are in a committed relationship, or have kids or both. So no help there. It's been just over a year, and it's more aggravating than anything. I'm also not the type to just bang some random chick. I don't want any diseases and goddammit I AM picky because I DO have standards. But then again the last three chicks I messed with were "freaks" by most standards and I don't know how well that would play when entering a new sexual encounter either.

So I'm down for some advice/ridicule as well as long as it doesn't include hookers, complete sluts, or fatties.

Dude that last sentence just made you my new hero. that was awesome.

Well nick guess you decided to come out and share that it was you.

Only advice i can really give really to either one of you is the asshole always gets the ass.



-Justin

So I just need to stop caring and act like an asshole then? Hmm something to ponder. And I agree with justin that last sentence awesome haha.

Treat em mean, keep em keen.

Get back into em lol, and take photos. I've walked away from some freaaaaaaaaaks...and ended up having kids with a frigid....go figure.