Relationship problems need advice

Haha. Maybe I'll meet some at Scrapin' The Smokies! I'll def. be lookin'. I'm not going to take my daughter away from her for now simply because it's not feasible because I'll have to have at least a year from now til I'm done with college... Then I can fight for custody.

Sorry to keep this going but I just figured I'd give another little update.

My girlfriend left yesterday blah blah... she came back to get the rest of her clothes and stuff today. She was trying to suck up to me and everything. I seriously was not going to have it. I didn't. She kept on going on about how she "can change" but I told her no one needs to change for others. I've been doing alot better today, no crying yet. I bawled my freakin eyes out all day and night yesterday, just because I miss my little girl.

I tried to keep myself busy today by wrenching on my Saab and I just ended up with bloody knuckles and a bunch of broken/stuck bolts and nuts... I hate 190k miles worth of rust and grime!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I had a good day other than that. Went and hung out with my friends for the first time in forever without getting called and nagged every 5 minutes (no joke). I'm regaining my social life.

I'm really realizing how horrible she was to me more and more each day. She wouldn't even let me have girls on my friends list on MYSPACE! While she could have all the guys in the world on hers and I couldn't say one word to her about it without fearing getting my head bitchedd off. It's time to start trying to make all my chick friends back that I had in school. I used to have alot of trustworthy chick friends before she came along.

HeX0rz - I really feel sorry for your brother man, kick him in the nuts for me so he'll realize he doesn't have to be a puppet. That's what I felt like all the time. I didn't take any offense to the "boning" thing but I have absolutely no regrets about becoming a father at my age, I'm very proud of myself and would rather have it this way than not have the beautiful little girl to make me smile everytime I see her, know what I mean?

She has family in Virginia that are college grads and very good people that aren't crackheads. She's probably gonna move up there after she gets her CNA license in July, if we dont get back together. I highly doubt we will. I gave her plenty of time to slightly tweak her ways but she never even tried. It'd actually be better if she moved to VA. It would cut the distance that I would have to drive from Wyotech in half.

have any pictures of yourself and her?

You were walking in my bro's shoes man... Except you got her out of the picture now!

How does it feel to walk 5 miles in my bros moccasins?

Yea, even though I don't want a kid yet, it would be IMO way better than a spouse. Cause you can raise a best friend! Alot more innocence and you can teach your kid alot of things and have a good laugh at their childishness!

Yes. I'm very glad I at least have my daughter around.

Hahaha, this is great................
Denise (my ex) texted me just now asking if I wanted to be with her or not (she keeps asking) and I said "no." She replies with "Oh well I was cheating on you anyways." What the fuckkkkk?!?!?! That's the most gut wrenching thing ever. Then I said it figured and that shes a real bitchh and she said "You're not Aubrey's dad anymore either."



It's okay though, it usually helps when something like this happens when you or a family member call the social services office and inform them of the situation, that helps alot in the custody battles supposedly. My dad called them yesterday, her white trash family didn't.

Meesh - Why?

Damn bro, That is fucked up to the max, Damn man Im sorry to hear that, Some people have no morals man, good luck with everything

Hey man, get ready for a serious battle. I'm going to tell you now that if she is anything like I assume she is, she is going to do anything in her power to keep you down and manipulate you whatever way to get her way.

DO NOT fall for it.. But it seems like you already knew that. I don't wanna seem like I'm trying to brainwash you and all, but I already have her figured out, lol...

I'm sure she is going to use your daughter as a weapon because thats all she has as well that is yours and what you consider precious to you..

are you on the birth certificat??

if so make sure you get a blood test done seriously you wanna know for sure if she is now saying the baby isnt yours

I know the baby is mine man. Or at least I hope so. She has my exact eye color (blue) and she looks just like me.

She has been trying to use her as a weapon already. Saying she'd take me to court and make me pay child support if I didn't give her another chance to be with me. It's so messed up man.

I've been hanging out with my friends the past few days/nights and I've had a blast. I've gotten to live my life without worrying about being nagged constantly. I'm not trying to just go hop right back into another relationship but I met a really nice girl already and she actually likes cars and music!

Rebound mistake. Dont do it. At LEAST for a few weeks. At worst case, find one, fuck her and forget her. DO NOT GET INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP... The bitch WILL use that against you, if she takes you to court.