you like that...it the truth...lol
Just wanna say, Hang in there!!! I've been split with my wife for 2yrs now, working on the divorce. our 3 kids live with me. been really hard raising 3 kids practically on my own, but wouldn't trade it for nothing. I grew up real quick let me tell you. i know wat your going thru, more or less, so just hang in there!!
don't give up on your lil girl, either, this is when she gon need you the most. do everything in your power to see her, or talk to her everyday, if the ex is stopping you then its bad on her. ALWAYs remember, Keep the best interest of your Child in mind. They are the reasons why we wake up everymorning, and bust our @sses at work (and occasionally browse da forums )
take it easy man, and best of luck to you
Just have to find the right woman, my wife isnt into cars at all and doesnt get the whole scene but she doesnt give me crap about it. The house and bills come first but after that we each have our own money to spend on hobbies or whatever.
^^^^ well see thats what i did, i worked on on the truck when she was at work(she worked nites)or when she was in a mood and all she was going to do was read a book all day,yes the bills were payed and my little girl was happy(and most of the time out side with me)befor i lost my job we played it way her money my money but i had my truck all took apart when i lost it so i had to put it back together and makw it safe to have my little girl in, so i was trying to work on it with little money nowso it took a long time to get it right( its still not right),so in the end i spent to much time on the truck and not with her,sorry when all she whats to do is lay in bed and read a book.... thats not spending time with me thats in a book to be with me is to talk, hold, each other, make love the things that you have to touch each other to do, and she didn't what this things she wanted her books
^^^thats women for yeah i just got done with that same arguement with my wife but she understands my point me sitting next to you is not spending time together. its just you doing something and me being bored sitting there. wtf. why cant women get it threw there f-ing heads.
ya for real, she thanks me setting in bed with my thumb in my ass was being together....NOT... oh well her lost.. i'll just have to give my big man love to someone else...lol
it dont even piss me off any more...thank thats a good thing
the longer this court shit go's on the more i am glade i kept the truck and not the bitchas she is starting to play dirty, as i havn't been able to find a job yet and i thought my unemplyment was over i had no way of paying child support,so now she is trying to get me for contemp of child support and have me put in jail for a year, well come to find out i can still get it but thats being a hard job in it self, it seems that now i have to file with the great state of tn and every time i try to call them i get the sorry we are to busy to take your call try again later...wtf...
oh well maybe my brother can get MY OLD JOB BACK AT THE OLIVE GARDEN... yay... but its a job so cant bitch to much,plus if i get this job i can start paying for child support and start buying things for sumer my little girl and maybe i can get her to like me again...who says you cant buy love...lol...hell its the only reasin she likes this new cock her mother is settin on,she gets anything she asks for.
let me ask all you guys out there? her tarms are everyother weekend, im asking for 50/50, she will not take the 50/50,if i take her tarms i dont get to fight for sumer for 2years, but it would put an end to the divorce and all it would be behind me.....what would you guys do? try to fight for sumer now when she needs her father the most,or try to pick up life 2years later
Dude call me sometime after 5:30pm cst I think if you truly have the best interest of you daughter in your heart and are reaching out for help we need to talk. I have been down some dirty ass roads with BOTH of my wives. Fortunately my current wife and I are starting over so to speak and really doing well. However my ex and I went thru world war 3 with each other so I know about every sneaky trick a tric will turn to get under your skin. From DFS calls to actually kidnapping and trying to leave state. PM me if interested and I will shoot you my number.
Jeff
pm sent
i dont want to loss my little girl, shes all i got, and the only thing keeping me here. if i loss her i'v lost it all,then i'll loss me
well guys the divorce is over, im free from the bitch and she cant do anything to me now becuase i got a job too, so i can pay for the child support, so im good for a long beer drinking truck draging party all nite truck run...lol whos with me?
i get to see my little girl every other weekend and get to keep her for the whole weekend fri-sunday so im happy with that for now,some things are killing me tho,she is now calling me(old daddy) ya i know wtf i tell her im the only daddy she has and the time she is here she just calls me daddy but when i call to talk ...its old daddy, oh well one of these days she will see what is going on and hopfuly make the right choice, as of now im going to make sure im there for her as much as i can be...
haha by the way i dont say more then two words to her mother anymore,just better that way