update on my life...

Man I feel for you right now. I know first hand what it is like to have a kick ass girl that has a cracked out psycho ex. However I could never get him to meet me face to face...hmmmm different story for a different time. I also know what your girl is going through. My ex is crazy with all caps!!! Lets just put this out there for you... She still uses my last name (I hate that) even though she has been remarried for the past two years. However she was living with one of their best friends. She actually just gave the guy the boot...less than a week after they get back from a 6 day trip in Hawii and after he gave her at least $1,000 to pay towards the child support she owes me! Now she appears to be going back to her husband sort of. Anyways this is just the latest I could write a damn novel off of our shit. The good thing is I have custody of our daughter. And my wife now who has been in her life since she was 15months old, is a true mother figure for her. She goes to her when she needs a mom... Even when she is visiting her real mom she calls Lora to talk to her. All I can say for you is if you like/love the girl you MUST love the kid like your own. Remember you are replaceable to her the kid is not. Huh funny thing is my current wife has said that if we ever split she is fighting for visitation rights to my oldest...her step daughter. You be like my wife and you will have it all. Peace and if you ever need to talk or anything just hit me up... I have been around this game a time or ten.

Sorry to hear I could tell you some story about my wifes crazy mexican gang banging piece of crap of a ex who has disowned his 3 kids. I am adopting all 3 of them. Keep your chin up and fight for what matters.

You Go CL!!!