update on my life...

ive had a few ppl ask me why i not posted to much on here and some other forums i post on... well here is the 411. a few months ago i met my current gf. she is the perfect girl for me, i love her to death. everything is great, between us. when i am with her i seriously feel like the world is perfect. no one has ever made me feel this way.... unfortunately... she is one of those girls with a psycho ex. so recently we have been trying to keep things on the DL (thats on the down low for all u old ppl...lol)... just to avoid conflict. well they have a son together, so unfortunately there is quite a few times that he intentionally wrecks our nights. calling her saying her son is sick and he needs to pick him up, and he is taking him to the hospital because he thinks he broke his leg (he bumped his leg and was 100% fine).. just shit that he KNOWS she will have to respond to. he use to beat her, abuse her, just really fucked up stuff. he managed to get my cell number and started harrassing me and shit. well i went to troop 5 and the officer told me that de does not have a restraining order policy. you can only do a PFA (protection from abuse) and you can only get one if there is a physical crime (like asult).. well last saturday we were at her grandparents house and he pulled up, started cussing at me and like a pussy poked me in the eye, then sucker punched me in the left cheek. so i called the police cause i finally had what i needed to have the pfa against him. since then i havent had any problems with him personally. but he has really started fuckin with her and its really getting to me. i can honestly say he is really really pushing me to the limit and i think im gonna blow the fuck up on him some day soon. anyways, this morning she was on her way to take her son to his grandparents house, his parents, and dick head was there. as soon as her son got out of the car, he hopped in and said he was taking the car or some dumb shit. im not sure what was exactly said but once again, he got angry and punched her taillights on her car (its a 2005 gto) then threw a soda inside her car and it got all over her seats, and everything inside. she called the police and they came, unfortunately there was nothing that could be done(dont ask me why). luckily, her best friends dad is a lawyer. so by lunch time all the proper papers were filed. soon they were at troop 4, and then at his house serving the papers. the cops are aware of everything that has happened, all the threats made towards her and myself. they even went to his house and comfiscated all his guns. she is really scared that he is gonna flip out on her and do something dumb, so she is getting outta town for a few days. i obviously cant say where because i dunno if he registered on here or someone here knows him. this fuckin lunatic even knows where i live, what i drive.... god i wish someone would **** him. i dont normally say that stuff, but this bastard doesnt deserve to live. he uses his own son just to fuck with his ex. he beats his son and his mom. wtf is his deal.

all i want is for her to be happy. i know that if she left me, that its because i wasnt the man i should be and she had to go elsewhere to get what she wants and deserves. all i can do now is try my best to make her happy and support her the best i can. i love her with all my heart and i honestly believe this is the girl i been waiting for. its just ashame to see such a wonderful person have so much bs going on in her life. her and her son do not deserve this shit. he is a great kid and super smart. fun as hell to hang out with. i just wish he could have a real "father" in his life.

so thats the story. there actually is ALOOOOOOOOOOT more. but that all i really feel is necessary. i prob said to much. just please keep her in your prayers guys. ill be fine. i just hope that everything works out for her.

dude thats nuts.. i have been the ex ( but she was dating a douche bag like your exs) he would run my ass off the road and threatedn to beat me and .. i ust laughed.. hes the kinda kid thats happy to have been in jail .. idiot.. anyho i wish you all the best.. girls dont deserve that kinda treatment....

steve

Ever heard of the "enter" key? LOL! Had a hard time reading...

Crazy times man! How old are you, BTW?

Just remember no matter how hard you try, you cannot stop people from doing what they do. Just be there for her and her son and they should always know you will be there to give her comfort.

Until then, IF NECESSARY, invest in a personal defense weapon. Because you may not be able to stop what they are doing, but you can stop them from doing it to you!

I'd prefer a .45... But you can always go the baton or taser, mace, route!

dude,that's messed up. i was in a similar situation with my ex. her psycho ex boyfriend lived across the street from her to make matters worse. many a night would i come out to find my car vandalized, or him making prank calls in the middle of the night,or him hiding out by my car waiting for me when I was leaving...sad part was,I had used to be good friends with the guy.

that's some pretty messed up stuff that guy is doing...it's one thing to have your girl in danger because of him,but now that both of you and her son are all in danger becauseof this psycho,action needs to be taken. There needs to be proof he is an unfit parent and your girl gets full custody of the kid.

Hope everything works out for you bro. Nobody likes to have to hear about shit like that.

thanks guys. actually tonight right after i posted she gave me a call and wanted to know if i wanted to go see a movie with her and her son. come to find out... HE told her he wanted me to go... do u guys know how good that makes me feel. after all the bs his dad has put him thru and him watching me have his dad arrested last saturday, this kid loves me... i dont think i could ever do any better then her, and quite frankly... i dont want anyone else. i will not let this ass hole guy stand in my way. he had way way way to many chances. now its my time. i think its really fucked up tho, the fact that his son would rather spend time with me then his own dad, but then again, i dont blame him. i would rather spend time with someone i know wouldnt hurt me and def wouldnt hurt my mom, even any guy, even if it was my own dad, that would ever hurt me or my mom...

this girl makes me feel sooo good. last week before the incident my mom went to the hospital because she cut herself by accident, and i went to the hospital and she insisted that she go with me... she had only met my mom one time and wanted to be there to support her and me....

i know all i gotta do is support her and be there for her... he doesnt know this, but everything he does to hurt her and break us apart, is only bringing her and i much much closer together.

sorry to hear it bro ...things will work out i call my wifes ex "dickhead" thats my pet name for the bastard..LOL....good luck bro keep us posted on "dickhead"...and how thing are with you

haha i refer to him as dickhead or even dickface alot too. lol

ya i use the term ass munch alot..LOL.. or twinkle toes....LOL

well i got a 9mm you can use if you need it i hate people that act like that....good luck with all that and keep us posted....if a dude poked me in the eye, he wouldnt be walking for 6-8 weeks becaust of 2 broken knee caps

Be glad the kid loves you...even if he's not your boy, if you're with his mother then you're technically going to be the step-dad, or "uncle" Dad.

He may not be yours,but if you love his mother, you gotta love the kid too...you have a way better chance of showing the kid the way life should be.

All the best to you guys.