Divorce SUCKS!!!

Can't be any worse then here, they spend more money on running snow plows whenever flurries drop and not enough on street repairs. Most streets have so many bumps, dips etc, without the shocks in, I damn near get motion sickness lol! Some are SO bad I just advoid them all together. We have train tracks running all through the city and in fact right down one of the main streets! Right in the middle like a trolly LOL! Crossing any of those tracks SUCKS!

yeah spokane roads sukk azz

This year was the year we had alot of snow in a long time. We are actually 3" away from breaking the record. Although, this weekend they are talking about SNOW STILL in APRIL. It probably wont get to 3 inches!

Lets just say, their response to plowing the streets was so bad, I had to raise my truck up and use chains after waiting a WEEK before I could get out of town to go to work!

Although, every spring they go out and do road work on potholes and they have been undergoing projects to completely redo whole stretches of road.

Lol, I remember when they re-did ash and ample street, it was soooo smooth! Lol, I'm gonna go on it this year and drag on it!

yeah im getting snow saterday WTF!!!!!!!

I've gotta replace my clutch master cylinder this weekend, I dunno what I'll do if it SNOWS!

And the left side of my brakes grab too!

lol...but this is all off-topic.

It's a depressing topic anyways LOL!

hey dude.. i dont know you and you dont know me.. but please listen.. i dont know how american child laws differ from us up here in canada.. butmake sure you guys have everything all sorted out on paper and you have rights to your kids.. i got blind sided by my ex and it sucks balls.. so many nights of crying myself to sleep i moved across the country.. thats how much her and i dont see eye to eye.. but i do take 4 trips yearly and i stay for a month each time.. so i can see my daughter.. the fact of the matter is.. IMO.. if your not happy.. your kids will see right though you.. a happy person will make your daughter happy.. do what right in your heart.. kids are first.. but you being mentally stable is also very important.. talk to your father if you have the ability.. i have learned alot from mine.. anyhow bro.. all the best to you..

steve

Thanks Steve. That's why I love this forum. There are people here who actually care. I don't talk to my dad much anymore, but I do know what you mean. It's one of the reasons I'm moving up that way. We fight on a daily basis and it just frustrates the hell out of me. I try just letting it go and telling myself it will be done soon, but I just found out by Colorado law, both parties must stay residents for the 90 days until finalized. Just seems like I keep hitting road blocks, but I know it's because I'm doing it the right way instead of just bailing. My kids know for sure, it's sad when your oldest son comes up to his crying dad and tells him 'it's ok'. As far as paperwork, that's all fine and done, now it's just dealing with the fights. She just can't go out without a fight. Funny how the woman you married and pledged your heart to can turn around and try to destroy what's left. Tell you what guys, love can hurt. I almost wish I could just quit caring and bounce. Well, I'm getting off the soap box now, thanks for letting me bend your ears lol!

Remember, brotha' that you need to see this in a different perspective..

Notice how, your kids seem to give you unconditional love, and the soon to be ex-wife is more in it for something else.

Respect what kind of gift your children are to you. I don't have a kid and all but I dream about it because I think all in all, if you can father them right, they will without a doubt be the best of friends in your life!

Look for comfort in the innocence of your kids and teach them the right way to live life. But I agree, love is hard to swallow when it goes sour!