I am in need of my forum brothers and sisters

So I have been having a rough time with the work, the car...pretty much everything....and the only good thing I had left after my daughter decides she no longer wanted to speak to me....was my GF....and now I have lost that too. heres a quick history

we got together and had some turbulence but we managed...but I think it still had done some damage inside of her that she couldnt let go of...well anyways....I moved in as requested by her...and things were really tight since she had gotten laid off and I was out of work....so the truck kept breaking down like you all know....I got rid of it and got the caddy...which hasnt been aTHAT bad....but it still needs work...but thats neither her nor there....well she has slowly becoming more and more distant and I felt more space between us (even if we were touching,,,there was still space between us)....so the other morning she goes to leave and says "have a good day" and leaves....no I love you...just leaves. Well I got up to start getting ready for a job I was trying out (sucked..commission sales blows!) and I eventually get a text that says I love you....but you could tell there was zero heart in it. I go to the job and the cad breaks down mid day....I drop the other guys off (got it running eventually) and go home...she gets home and I hear the alarm chirp...she walks in and I am online looking through jobs and she asks why I am home so early....I say the great white land yacht had some problems...she sits down and goes....

"I dont want us to be together anymore."

and I left...with ZERO money, NO PLACE to go, a car almost out of gas.....you name it....I dont have it.....quite literally right now....I have NO WHERE to go....this happened last night.

Yes at first I had initial anger and I was pissed....I LOVED this woman more than anything...I wanted to one day make her my wife....and now....well....thats obviously off huh?

at first we werent talking at all....she took my phone (so jeff/amy and sarah /dave, ethan.....everybody else that I used to text....I have no way to contact you for right now...email till I get a new phone and such) but we are talking SOME through facebook....I dont know why she chose that but it works....she has removed me as any form of a friend on anything.....I had changed my status to single which is all I did....she had chosen to remove me, but she has her reasons.

I was so hurt and pissed at first....now I have just become numb....I cant describe all I have gone through internally emotionally....mainly because I am sure we have all had time some time before and secondly....I just dont feel I can bring that much out of myself any longer.....my heart has turned to absolute stone or it is on its way at least to being that.

I am happy enough in the fact she and I are at least talking in some form......but I am shutdown....I know I love her very much and I know I am totally heartbroken.....

I just want my GF back....I want to hold her and make her happy like I once used too.....

oh and top it off....I had a HUGE test today for a really good job and I get over to my parents to check my email...and I have 3 new alarm jobs starting up....the 911 dispatcher I have tested for and a alarm job for the city I am up for.

and there was our main problem I think....lack of money...it always comes down to money dont it

DUDE.... u aint got a maz... u no brudda!

















just messin man lol

man it aint bout the money. my grandpa worked his ass off for 40 years at 2 back breakin jobs just to support his wife and family. they were together damn near 50 years and they were poor pretty much the whole time. my folks been together like 30 years and are still strugglin. if a girl is worried bout the money situation it will never work. hell mine wanted me cuz i was makin like 13/hour but once i got fired, 2 weeks later she left me for a guy that had a similar job.


it aint bout the money. if a girl wants to be with you, she'll start out with you WITH NOTHING and y'alls both work up to havin something.

money shouldn't be an issue. ever. if a couple wants it to work, it'll work. like they say, thru the good times and bad, sickness and in health, all that garage (damn i'm a prick ahahahahaha)

dont worry bout it man. you may not have a dawg no more but hell i'm still ur homie. text back u BASTID!

I cant text bro....she has my phone. I have to get a new one then I have to find your number cuz its on some lil card. TMobile man....and since it was her ohone, her bill...her everything.....Im screwed. I have to get new everything....furniture cuz I got rid of all mine when I moved in with her....I dont even have a place to store my stuff right now and she wants it out by this weekend....and put it where???????

yes for some reason it always does come down to the money. my wife and i still have our issues. even if i dont spend any money it always comes back to it. dont know why.
hope things straighten out for ya. my dad always said things happen for a reason!

Man - tough situation for sure. I would be more than happy to help if I could. I have loaned out use of my enclosed trailer a few times to friends in need. Unfortunately AZ to IA is a little to far

Hang in there, I know things suck right now but they always seem to work out in the end. Ask CrazyMikey - he's had some pretty crappy luck and is now "movin on up". It takes time, but things will work out.

bein heartbroke sucks man. stuff is stuff but love is somthin else. u just gotta keep ur head up, if its meant to be it will be. ive got 2 ex-wives and 3 children with them.(atleast i get to see my kids, the x's aint too hatefull) a wise man once told me.... women are like buses....... you miss the first one, the next one comes along in 15min.

I know things happens for a reason and all....I believe in my heart it was meant to be with her....she was my positive I needed so badly in my life after 4 years of crappiness since my exwife left me. which I dont get to see my daughter right now.,...but thats HER choice (my daughters)

She aint like the bus man.....she is something special....a star in my life that I had shining...and I dearly loved her...hell I do still love her

i wasnt sayin she was a bus man. just lettin you know theres always more out there if things dont work out. if you love this woman, show her you do. if she loves you, she'll realize it n come back. theres no easy button in this kind of situation you just have to work through it, good or bad.

we are at most talking bro....for now. She says she is staying home and moping....but she is online right now....but didnt answer my last email...says she needs some time to herself right now. That kinda suxks.....I feel so alone....this sucks.

dude i will tell you this. i had quite a few girls leave me cuz of money issues. it sux, makes you feel worthless. i'll pm u my number again cuz i need a bscener to talk too! lol but seriously, after all the similar drama i went thru with my ex, i ended up meetin a girl when i was jobless and broke, and she didn't mind me bein broke. i scraped together the money to take her to git chinese whenever she wanted, got some cash to git a few 6 packs and some gas to go cruz round. i showed her that even tho i was broke and jobless that i could still show her a fun time and she loved comin around for the simple, broke life that i was livin, just cuz i'd put her first. we weren't always drunk, but i always put her first with the food, the drinks, the fun. only problem is i can't seal the deal and never have been able too. i'm gonna let this one slip away and regret it for the rest of my life.

all i'm sayin is, if you find a girl in ur hard times that understands the hardtimes and still enjoys bein around you, everything will work out. i met girls when i was doin good finacially. once the money was gone, the girl was too. girls like that aint worth it man.

giver time but dont spend you days worrying that she's the one. if she wants to be with you, she'll see that you're tryin to make your way thru the world. a good one will stick with you no matter what.



















































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