I guess we have a wire on the boat trailers that activates a soleniod to disengage the brakes when you are backing up, and that is hooked to the reverse wire of the truck.
See if this helps.
I believe it is the blue wire #2 terminal, use a test light to double check.
If you want to run some sort of reverse light you'll have to run the wiring for such from the front to the rear of the trailer. You'll have to be carefull how much of a load you put on it, because the truck wiring isn't made to handle a huge load. On your truck your just piggybacking off the stock wiring system. Some of the newer trucks have dedicated wiring just for the trailer, therefore can handle a little more load.