Broken Dreams

Just wanted to say im sorry to all the friends and family here on the scene for not bein on here lately.... In the last week my life has been flipped upside down and drug threw the gates of hell ...Sum of you may know and sum may not and sum of you may not even care but i just lost the only thing in my life worth a damn and that was my familynot by my choice... all from working to much and lack of communications i hope and pray the pieces of this puzzle can all b put back together and my family can be under one roof again we had it all together ( house, cars, kids) never saw this coming with the price of everything going up and tension and stress from that longer hours just to pay the bills by doing this she felt strapped down with work ,kids,online school,house work because i was working long days she started feeling this isnt gonna work and she decided that we need to go are seperate ways what was i to do i begged pleaded and tried to reason and compromise with her and no luck i ended up since now that she made the choice she asked me what all here do you want and i told her just my family i ended up giving her everything i took my cloths and moved up the strret bout 6 blocks close enough that i can still spend time with the kids but Ive feel like ive been leveled dont know what to do anything i spent the last week from monday afternoon till sunday evening when we finally talked i did not eat or sleep at all during this time i myself feel ive got nothing no pride just feel crushed ashamed and betrayed i have pride and the upmost for the kiddos but i feel if two people honestly love each otherit can work takes time and patience what im saying is Please anyone of you that is in a relationship dont let it go and please dont loose it you will feel lost and empty and hollow and it hurts each and evry minute of everyday i pray for all of your relationships and i hope they stay strong or become stronger...

Sorry to hear it. I'll be praying for you.

well if you need help or to chat... i say this for most everyone on here.... i am here for you....

Tough row to hoe,man.We r here if needed.Just shows the difference between men and women-we think we are doing the right thing by working long hours to "provide"-and women think we r not paying enough attention to them and family.Been there-but Ms. Hoc and I were able to compromise with things like "date night" where each Thursday nite was her nite out, no excuses ,no compromise. 47 years later we are still having "date nite". Real sorry u guys couldnt work it out,but hang in there.BJ

sorry to hear that man, i'll be praying for you

sorry to hear that bro. almost that same thing happened to me a couple weeks ago but there was no kids involved. the first night it kinda freaked me out because the said that nothing was ever gonna happen between us anymore and just wanted to be friends. my friends finally convinced me that she would come to her senses so i just waited it out. a week later she was beggin me to come back and things are better than they were before. hopefully your girl will realize the same thing and i wish the best luck to you.

been there myself! feelin for ya. my wife and i are still not 100%, but things are alot better. hope it works out for you. ust remember, what ever happens, dont talk bad about mom in front of the kids. they are what matters most!

sorry to hear than man i went through the same thing with my ex....everything happens for a reason ..my life is better now than i ever could have hoped for..sorry you have to go throught this hard time we are here for you...TODD

That shit sucks man but always remeber to put the kids first she will come around eventually give her the space she needs and just try to talk communication is a virtue most relationships don't use anymore it amazes me how many couples fight because they can't/won't express how they really feel about things until it has built up so much they just explode my best advise is to just smoke a fatty relax a little and slowly try to work things out don't get in a hurry to patch things up when you do things in haste they may not always be the right decisions. It does suck I have been married for 4 years and up until the last year I was getting a divorce everytime I turned around but it was simply because we didn't communicate. I wish you luck and if you need someone to talk to IM me and I will do my best or if you need a fatty come on down and we'll smoke one.

that sucks man soryy to hear that but i hope everything works out for the best i have been there almost before i have been married for seven years and like another bscener wrote every time i turned around it was divorce time but sometimes it takes falling down to be able to make things better if ya know what i mean it worked out in my case anyways good luck