lets just be friends!!!!!

well like it says...i got asked what no guy wants to hear,yep the dreadful lets just be friends, she has probs and i have probs but for me that was ok, we can work on them together, but from what she told me tonite, she never wanted to be in a relationship to start with..even tho she was the one that kissed me first, she started it.... any ways she wants me to work on geting my self esteem up, but shes not going to give up the pills,drinking and pot just yet.....fine friends it is, im going to go "party" anymore tho im going to be me that is what she wants then i can do that...me is setting at home bored out of my mind, but im not high,, i did all that befor and now i look back and wounder why i did it to start with.....any ways this is my rant...im good now thanks

Esteem is something you find in yourself. It comes at a time when you find that thing in you that say, now im the man. I think tthat the work you help me with and the chat we have when we run into each other is cool. Just because she has issues means nothing of you. So, sit home bored out your mind at least it wont f**k with your life more then what she will have coming to her. All things find a truth in time. Karma is not something you hide from, trick, or run from. Some day it finds its way back to the truth. Remember that my friend, she will learn this lesson one day. That I will bet you.

Haha man I so used to hate it when I was told "let's just be friends", or, "you're more like a brother to me." Hah! Used to pee me off cuz the same girls would then go be with a guy that treated'm like crap. So it goes bro. God's got the right girl out there for ya if ya wait on Him to bring her to you. You need to make sure you're not putting your happiness in just what some chick says about you, to you, or whether she'll sleep with you man. There is so much more to life than a girl. Keep ya head up bro, and be who you need to be for your self man. God placed a much higher value on you than any girl will ever be able to share with you.

dude i'm the last one to give advise considering i have no dating history but........... You do not need a pill popper ,drunk (well sometimes a drunk girl) and pot smoking chick. esp sense you got your kid to worry about those types of women are nothing but trouble , god forbid you had her in your truck and she stached something in it and you "happen" to get pulled over ... then what you gona do cause your the one gona get lockedup for what ever it is if your truck gets randomly searched one day ... If i were you i'd go thru your vehicle(s) you've had her in and make sure she didn't leave any party favors behind . And go shopping for another chick to "play" with there's alot in the sea to play with nowadays.

yeah i got the lets be friends bullshit last night. i flat out told her, after having you, and wanting to keep having you, how is it fair to me, for you to say, i still want to be friends, thats like hanging the greatest object in front of my face and saying look look, but you can never have. i dont want a just friends relationship cause i dont want to be around when i see the next cock come into your life when it should be me and not some other joe blow. f that, you want friends go make some. but after dating you, im not going to sit around and play just friends, when i had better than just friends, and would prefer better than just friends. f women in the face.

i know what you mean man, i need all that crap, it was the fact she said she wanted to quit...so i was like sure i can help..anyways whatever right? move on and find a girl thats cool and as boring as me...lol


we never made it far...didnt even get to the sex

ah go knock on her door and stick your pointy thing in her and feel better then tell her to screw off lol ... SHE DESERVES THAT after treating you the way you have .

hahaha i have so thought about that..but i was thinking more like "this is what you could of had" instead of letting her have it...lol...

I think every "good guy" on the planet has been told that. I'll tell you from experience no one needs some one with problems cause when your married those small problems get bigger


On an up note. I told my wife I didn't want to date her I just wanted to be friends and she said the same. We've been together for 5 years and never had a fight. I couldn't ask for a better relationship. When your friends first no one hides anything

Just my 2 cents and it's worth about the same

ya we are going to be friends, my little girl loves her,thinks shes fun as hell, so i cant just walk away totaly.... she did want to quit once so maybe i can get her to...we'll see...anyways im not going to be pushing or asking for any kind of relationship...i took my chance it didnt work...moving on