need help with DIGITAL STEALTH valves

ok, so i have the slam specialties digital stealth valves on my truck (THE ONES THAT HAVE A FAST VALVE AND SLOW VALVE ALL IN ONE) and we got them to work with an avs 9 switch box using some relays and a toggle switch to switch them from the fast valve to slow valve using the same controller. we took the interior apart and neglected to mark the wires when we took them apart (i know im dumb) anyways, does anyone know how to re wire them? i hate the slam controller for the valves and dont want to have to use it. someone told me to just run a switch on the ground but doing that causes it to use the slow valve for a second, and then dumps the fast valve. MAX? i need ya...

Hmm....those are so much fun to wire. We managed to get mine on the Nissan wired to only 6 switches with no toggle. Just imagine a piece of 24 pin wire...

One way diodes, a whole lot of them.