Music Sites??

Heres my situation.. I am using Ares Lite as my downloading music site and my wife and I have a bunch of stuff downloaded but when we transfer them into ITUNES we have to keep them in Ares as well.. If we delete them from Ares we lose them from ITUNES..

What sites do you guys use to download music??

It is pointless to keep the same music in 2 locations on our computer taking up space you know..

Any help would be appreciated..

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